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Post by rustystarlight on Jun 13, 2007 17:35:55 GMT -5
No this is not a cry for attention or whatever. But I'm going to quit cause I can't do this anymore I'm trying my hardest and I'm really busy at times whenever I try i fell like im being shunted and then people have a go because of this. I'm the busiest person I know but I try because I don't like leaving site and letting people down but I'm obviously too bad of an rper to carry on here so see ya!
P.S. yes I didn't want to leave this site so much that I actually cried
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Post by RM on Jun 13, 2007 17:49:53 GMT -5
ok I've calmed down a bit and realised Imay have been over-reacting a bit but my life has been a pile of sheeps dung at the moment. I know orange want Mac so I'll only have Rusty even though I loved Mac, but like I said when I agreed I have to give him up if someone else wants him. What I might do is retire Rusty and try again with a new character that I can fit it easier and not find myself outcast...what do you think?
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Post by Munkustrap Etc. on Jun 13, 2007 17:54:28 GMT -5
That's fine, you can make up a different character. But I'm going to tell you basically the same thing here I just told you over IM.
Role-playing is a two-way street. If you want to have interactions, you need to help us out. You have to meet us halfway. No more of this hiding/sleeping/withdrawing crap and expecting our characters to hunt you down to talk to you.
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Post by rustystarlight on Jun 13, 2007 17:56:27 GMT -5
That's why I said about a new character because i can make them completely different and make it easier to intergrate them. I've asked Orange to keep Mac's picture, I stick to honor the agreement we had much as i wish I couldn't ah well c;est la vie buh bye Maccy!
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Post by cookingspray on Jun 13, 2007 22:54:33 GMT -5
. . . Is your leaving directly related to the fact that Orange requested to play Macavity? Because the way I understood things, you only had the role on a temporary basis - and her request was in no way a reflection of her wishes for you to leave the site, or to rob you of your own characters and role in the RP.
As Spider said, RPing (and most things in life) is a two-way street. If you want us to give back to you, then you have to accord us the same treatment. I don't think it's your character that's the problem, it's how you play. And while that may sound harsh, it's probably the most direct reason as to why you feel ostracized in the game. I've specifically tried to include you at least once in my short time here, and you didn't take the bait - role-playing is only fun as long as you enable yourself to interact with the other characters. We shouldn't have to go out of our way to inject you.
Rusty's shyness may make her a reclusive cat to begin with, but instead of having her watch from the sidelines, why not have her get up the courage to come out and mingle, and involve herself? Even shrinking violets can come out of their shells every once in a while.
If you still decide to leave, or inject a new OC into the game, that's your perogative, but don't feel like you're being accused over this incident. My $2.
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Post by rustystarlight on Jun 14, 2007 1:48:50 GMT -5
I never said I feel accused, nor is it linked with orange's want of maccy i was merely letting everyone know trhat i was no longer rping him. I am quite happy to give him away. What this is about is the fact that I'm now being told I have no idea to rp when for the last 4 years gues what i've been doing? I'd think I have sufficient experience by now....but hey i'm starting to rethink my idea of staying on....anyone else wanna tell me im crap? I didn't want to start fights I just wanted to be able to say my views and how I felt because it seems in ALL areas of my life no-one cares anymore and I've pretty much had enough. And didn't I say that I would make a new character and basically revise my rping? Why is everyone intent on fighting with me even when i agree and say I will sort it?
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